A Stain I Want To Erase

Imagine yourself having a relationship that’s too good to be true. LIke a love that’s deeper and sweeter than Romeo and Juliet. A prince in a fairy tale world. Then suddenly, it all stopped. For days, weeks and months, you won’t receive any texts, email nor phone calls.

Furious and confuse, you’d approach that prince. He’d ask you why do you want to see him? And you’d answer, “Coz I wonder how you’ve been” then ask him, “What am I to you?”. And he’d tell you, “You’re a stain i want to erase!. Start worrying about yourself. Take care.” OUCH???!!! OMG!!!!!

Okay, how did I know this? Stop playing that thoghts in your mind for this isn’t my love story, hahaha. I’m currently watching the korean version of “Boys Before Flowers” (a.k.a Hana Yori Dango (Japan) & Meteor Garden (taiwan)).

There’s this scene where the guy said that, “A stain I want to erase”.

I find guys (or even gals, for i heard there are bitch out there) who does this thing a BIG COWARD. Instead of telling the other person directly that they’ve fallen out of love, they keep the other waiting and wondering of ‘WHY THINGS SUDDENLY CHANGED’. They don’t have the nerve to tell directly that they’ve fallen out of love.

Face it, telling them or not will cause the same, you’d break their heart (may even crashed it). So why prolong, and why leave the other person hanging?

Some are scared to say the magic word, “i’ve fallen out of love” because their scared of hurting the other person. But scared or not, not telling the other person that you did, will only worsen the other’s situation. For some, those who tell the girl/guy directly are cruel, but as for me, it’s better to be honest than keep the other waiting. They’d get hurt, that’s for sure, but at least, they can move on.

Pain isn’t scary, what’s more scary is believin’ onto something that isn’t there anymore.