“You cannot cross an island if you won’t sail the sea”, this runs thru me at decision point.
Thirty days ago, I’ve faced the port and had my choice, to be a WIZARD or a WARRIOR. To differentiate, a wizard is someone who likes to speculate and be skeptical before taking action while a warrior is a fighter that takes on the challenge in the quest of seeing the unseen. And what did I chose? BE A WARRIOR THAT BIDDED BON VOYAGE. :)
Now, thirty days after, I haven’t reached the island yet. As my mentors have said, this sail isn’t an easy quest that will give you an instant result but the journey and long-term result will speak for itself. And chronicler as I am, I wouldn’t want to miss telling my reader the story of what I’ve seen and got on my first thirty days of sailing.
If there’s one word to describe it, that’ll be, CHANGE. Change in itself is broad, so here are some of those that I’ve personally encountered:
*** MINDSET ***
Before I’ve met the community, I was aware of the law that states “thoughts become things”.
Most people aren’t aware of this law or some do knows it but rarely do they apply it. In my first 30 days, exercising the power of my thoughts has been one of the great activities I’m enjoying. Now, I’m not only aware but I am reminded and directing it to think like the rich people does. Day by day, I exercise my millionaire and billionaire mind. :)
Remember, your thought is the most powerful thing for it gives you what you feed it. So what I do is feeding it with positive and richness thoughts.
*** LIKE-MINDED PEOPLE ***I’m a professional accountant and as such, I’m usually surrounded by wizards, those who speculate and are skeptical, most especially, they have an “employee” mindset. I’ve used to be quoted as extra-ordinary and weird for I think differently. I knew I was ‘til I found this community, then I thought I’m not a weirdo, I just have a different mind from the usual CPA.
In here, I am surrounded by those who think the way I do, and what is it? Financially free mindset. A mindset that believes that money should work for me and not vice versa. A mind that believes there are greater things to be done, with our most valuable asset called TIME, than spending it 8 hours or more in a cubicle of your office desk.In here, I’ve learned to disassociate and spend less time to people who may disempower my rich thoughts and have started building relationships and network with different but like-minded individuals. Indeed, like attracts like.
As they say, if you want to be beautiful surround yourself with beautiful people so you can learn to be one instead of surrounding yourself with ugly people to stand out and learn nothing. :)
*** MENTORSHIP ***No man is an island. In life, one way or another you’ll need another person that will serve as your guide post that will inspire and teach you ways they’ve got thru learning and experience.
In this community I’ve learned to differentiate “helping” and “teaching”. As they say, “Feeding the fish to someone won’t solve the problem but teaching how to fish will”.
T.Harv Eker have quoted, “If you want to be rich, learn and spend time with the rich”. In this community, you’d meet a lot of mentors and coaches who are wealthy, that’s rich with both money and time. And these mentors serve as my guide post that teaches me (in lieu of helping me) how to have what they’ve achieved.
Here, I’ve learned to be “coachable”. BE=DO=HAVE. That’s develop and grow myself to BE the right person to do business. DO act upon the task and commitments given to me. And as I diligently follow it thru, I’ll HAVE the personal and financial growth and reward I’m aiming for.
Trust is vital in this community for without it, you wouldn’t last.
TRUSTING your mentors is very crucial. Besides, they’ve made it and you’re here to learn from them. And from there, you can apply it as your own and/or create your own blueprint that works for you. :)
*** UNCOMFORTABILITY = GROWTH ***
TAKE ACTION TO YOUR FINANCES OR TAKE ORDERS ALL YOUR LIFE. – Robert Kiyosaki.
Since day one into the core, the tasks were never ending just like the jobs we have to do at work. But the difference is that these tasks are non-routine and usually hits your comfort zone that results to your uncomfortability and growth. New core team like I am are called “Apprentice” for we are still learning to be “Coaches or Mentors ” ourselves. Being an apprentice means we still need to grow. And to be able to grow, all you have to do is have humility to start as a beginner and learn from the experienced mentors/coaches.
To give you a quick idea, I’ve formulated it as follow:
TASK + ACTION + UNCOMFORTABILTY = GROWTH
In here, each task or “job” will result to your growth, as long as you’re coachable enough TO TAKE ACTION.
And from growth, MONEY will just follow.
I personally believe that personal growth is very crucial to be successful for it helps you move despite the most uncomfortable circumstances and nothing else can beat such courage.
*** COMMITMENT AND INTEGRITY ***
My personal goal is to walk my life with integrity. Integrity means differently to different people. But to define it myself, integrity is more than honesty of your words but more of realness of your values, principles and purpose. Once your integrity is clear, commitment follows for you wouldn’t want to spread dirt to your deepest values and purpose. Most people are confused with their purpose that’s why it’s hard for them to live up to their commitments that prejudice their integrity.
In the community, my integrity have doubled and improved more. For they see the passion and pureness of my purpose. It’s easier for me to act on my commitments for I know and live my purpose. And this purpose is what’s keeping me moving forward regardless. :)
*** A MISSION AND VISSION GREATER THAN MYSELF ***
Another addicting part about this community is its mission and vision.
In the past, I’ve been involved into reading and sharing my life experiences and lesson learned thru blogs. But in this community, I do not only write it to share but I speak and teach it day by day.
Making a difference into someone else’s life is the most rewarding feeling I ever felt. Empowering them thru words and modeling are priceless.
Our community isn’t only spreading financial literacy alone but personal greatness overall. :)
If all Filipino’s can attend to this kind of community and gatherings, FIRST WORLD PHILIPPINES is very possible. And that’s what I love about this community for despite rejection of our invitation, we keep our eye on our commitment and mission to move us forward to our vision. :)
*** PERSISTENCE ***
For me, this is the most important change and value I have learned from this community. In the past, I’m one of the people who are scared of failure and rejection. But as I’ve learned, successful people fall 7 times but stands up 8 times.
In the community, this phrase isn’t purely theoretical for I’ve applied it in my reality during the first weeks. In 30 days span, I’ve encountered a lot of uncomfortabilities that if I didn’t persisted, I’ve perished. As they say, “If it won’t kill you, DO IT. It’s better to do die trying”. :)
*** PROFIT ***
Ofcourse, anyone who engage in business think of the profit. Most of my coaches have said that in this business your profit is in direct proportion to your growth. GROWTH = MONEY. Thus explain why the journey to your growth will determine the time of your profit.
In 30 days, I’ve already earned both personally and financially. Tho I’m still not yet financially free but I know I’m not too far from it. :)
It has only been 30 days but a lot have changed already. And to experience the same, I invite you to assess yourself if you want to embrace these three important characteristic that you need to endure being a core team:
1) Be Coachable (have an open mind and willingness to take action)
2) Be success-driven (set your purpose and goal)
3) Be willing to start as a beginner (have the humility to unlearn and learn)
Three simple characteristic, that if you have them, for sure you’d enjoy THE VOYAGE INTO THE CORE TEAM.
Wednesday, May 13, 2009
Saturday, April 25, 2009
A Piece Called CA2020
In grade school, I’ve been exposed to the mainstream of high rise buildings in Ayala, Makati. My mom has been working all her life as an Accountant and she was a great influence on why I pursued my profession as Certified Public Accountant. At a young age, I was mesmerized by the glamour of the corporate world for the high profiled job and office my mom had back then left a huge difference in me. And like the usual parental advice, I’ve studied hard and diligently reviewed to pass the board exam. Fortunately, I’ve passed it and got jobs on good firms in the country. But as I’m living and working in the corporate world, the glamour I’ve used to believe in did not shine the way it used to.
Three years after college, I’m now at Ayala, Makati working in a multinational oil company with a high profiled job inside a luxurious building with my own desk complete with all the things I need to work well. In such time, I was recognized and promoted to a leadership position. I am grateful with the recognition and trust but deep within I knew something’s missing. I’ve worked hard and reached the positions I’ve aimed for but slowly I started to see and realized that corporate world wasn’t the place I want to grow and live with. I started to realize that this world is taking too much of my time but doesn’t provide me that much financial freedom. As I stay longer, the more I valued my youth and time that I rarely have because I have too much work in my desk. Then I felt something’s not right and I started to look for that missing piece until one day, like a light of bulb, I found the piece that completed my puzzle. That piece of puzzle is called Create Abundance 2020 Business Community (CA2020).
Before I’ve found my piece, I’ve searched my soul by reading a lot of books, attending seminars and a solo road trips to places just to reflect. All the soul searching was beneficial and fulfilling but still I felt the emptiness of that piece until one day a friendster message have solved and changed my growing puzzle.
CA2020 means a lot to me, it’s my school, my battlefield and my family for I own and breathe with it for I’ve found a new form of living that supported my beliefs and desires. In this community I’m learning to be a good player in the game of business and life. Every day I spend is a day of empowerment and positivity. In this place I can be both at my best and not-so-best for it doesn’t criticize and accepts failure as learning ground. It’s a place for me to learn and re-learn by empowering others and be empowered. In here I’m enhancing all the skills of business, people, leadership and personal that I needed to truly succeed in life. And with these powerful people surrounding me, success in all aspect isn’t too far and hard at the same time, I’m enjoying my most valuable asset called TIME. :)
Isn’t it a marvelous piece of puzzle to find a place where you learn and grow as a person, meet and cultivate people, and you’re earning yet you have all the time in your hands. It sounds impossible but it’s existing for a lot of us have already found it. You just have to ask yourself if you have the same missing piece that you need to search on for who knows you’ll find the same piece I’ve had.
Three years after college, I’m now at Ayala, Makati working in a multinational oil company with a high profiled job inside a luxurious building with my own desk complete with all the things I need to work well. In such time, I was recognized and promoted to a leadership position. I am grateful with the recognition and trust but deep within I knew something’s missing. I’ve worked hard and reached the positions I’ve aimed for but slowly I started to see and realized that corporate world wasn’t the place I want to grow and live with. I started to realize that this world is taking too much of my time but doesn’t provide me that much financial freedom. As I stay longer, the more I valued my youth and time that I rarely have because I have too much work in my desk. Then I felt something’s not right and I started to look for that missing piece until one day, like a light of bulb, I found the piece that completed my puzzle. That piece of puzzle is called Create Abundance 2020 Business Community (CA2020).
Before I’ve found my piece, I’ve searched my soul by reading a lot of books, attending seminars and a solo road trips to places just to reflect. All the soul searching was beneficial and fulfilling but still I felt the emptiness of that piece until one day a friendster message have solved and changed my growing puzzle.
CA2020 means a lot to me, it’s my school, my battlefield and my family for I own and breathe with it for I’ve found a new form of living that supported my beliefs and desires. In this community I’m learning to be a good player in the game of business and life. Every day I spend is a day of empowerment and positivity. In this place I can be both at my best and not-so-best for it doesn’t criticize and accepts failure as learning ground. It’s a place for me to learn and re-learn by empowering others and be empowered. In here I’m enhancing all the skills of business, people, leadership and personal that I needed to truly succeed in life. And with these powerful people surrounding me, success in all aspect isn’t too far and hard at the same time, I’m enjoying my most valuable asset called TIME. :)
Isn’t it a marvelous piece of puzzle to find a place where you learn and grow as a person, meet and cultivate people, and you’re earning yet you have all the time in your hands. It sounds impossible but it’s existing for a lot of us have already found it. You just have to ask yourself if you have the same missing piece that you need to search on for who knows you’ll find the same piece I’ve had.
Monday, March 30, 2009
Habit 3: Put First Things First
In the past, I always put my focus into one. Whenever something interests me, I’ll strive to be at my best on that something. I always strive for “efficiency” instead of “effectiveness”. Other than being efficient, I also tend to be “do-it-all” type of person. I never say “No”. As I’ve blogged a few weeks ago, never saying “no” isn’t good at all. You should learn to say “no”.
Habit 3 teach about dealing with urgency and importance, putting things first without losing balance. Most people lack balance in life, either their too pre-occupied with work, love, family, school, business etc. Such lackness causes them to feel stressed, haggard and unhappy with life which also at times lead to broken relationships. I used to be one of those who don’t believe there is this real “balance” in life. Now, I’m happy to say that my life never felt this balanced as I started to learn the trick. :D
When I say balanced, it doesn’t mean complete equilibrium in all aspect, mind you, it can’t be perfect equality. Someone have said that life balance is like your four fingers (exclude your thumb). If you’d look at these fingers, they’re not created equal but their close to it. In viewing life’s balance, you can look at your fingers to remind you the “almost equality” in the four aspect of life, that’s mental, spiritual, physical and emotional.
When you start to understand this, you’d see life as easy as ABC. Haha. You’d start to appreciate how wonderful life is and how you can live it to the fullest, day by day. You’d realized that “busy” is the most irrelevant excuse you can ever say for you’d never be busy. You’d start to view the word “busy” to mean lack of control on the most important asset of life which is TIME. For you do have all the time to build relationship and produce outputs, it’s just rest to you on WHAT’s valuable that leads to your happiness. :D
As I started to apply this in my life, a noticeably changed in my aura and outlook started to come out. Now I feel bubblier, younger and happier than I ever felt. :D To start attracting positive vibes in your life, aim for balance, and from there you’d start to attract positive things for you feel positively happy with life. Remember, like attracts like. :D
“Things which matter most must never be at the mercy of the things which matter least”. – GOETHE
Habit 3 teach about dealing with urgency and importance, putting things first without losing balance. Most people lack balance in life, either their too pre-occupied with work, love, family, school, business etc. Such lackness causes them to feel stressed, haggard and unhappy with life which also at times lead to broken relationships. I used to be one of those who don’t believe there is this real “balance” in life. Now, I’m happy to say that my life never felt this balanced as I started to learn the trick. :D
When I say balanced, it doesn’t mean complete equilibrium in all aspect, mind you, it can’t be perfect equality. Someone have said that life balance is like your four fingers (exclude your thumb). If you’d look at these fingers, they’re not created equal but their close to it. In viewing life’s balance, you can look at your fingers to remind you the “almost equality” in the four aspect of life, that’s mental, spiritual, physical and emotional.
When you start to understand this, you’d see life as easy as ABC. Haha. You’d start to appreciate how wonderful life is and how you can live it to the fullest, day by day. You’d realized that “busy” is the most irrelevant excuse you can ever say for you’d never be busy. You’d start to view the word “busy” to mean lack of control on the most important asset of life which is TIME. For you do have all the time to build relationship and produce outputs, it’s just rest to you on WHAT’s valuable that leads to your happiness. :D
As I started to apply this in my life, a noticeably changed in my aura and outlook started to come out. Now I feel bubblier, younger and happier than I ever felt. :D To start attracting positive vibes in your life, aim for balance, and from there you’d start to attract positive things for you feel positively happy with life. Remember, like attracts like. :D
“Things which matter most must never be at the mercy of the things which matter least”. – GOETHE
Saturday, March 28, 2009
A Stain I Want To Erase
Imagine yourself having a relationship that’s too good to be true. LIke a love that’s deeper and sweeter than Romeo and Juliet. A prince in a fairy tale world. Then suddenly, it all stopped. For days, weeks and months, you won’t receive any texts, email nor phone calls.
Furious and confuse, you’d approach that prince. He’d ask you why do you want to see him? And you’d answer, “Coz I wonder how you’ve been” then ask him, “What am I to you?”. And he’d tell you, “You’re a stain i want to erase!. Start worrying about yourself. Take care.” OUCH???!!! OMG!!!!!
Okay, how did I know this? Stop playing that thoghts in your mind for this isn’t my love story, hahaha. I’m currently watching the korean version of “Boys Before Flowers” (a.k.a Hana Yori Dango (Japan) & Meteor Garden (taiwan)).
There’s this scene where the guy said that, “A stain I want to erase”.
I find guys (or even gals, for i heard there are bitch out there) who does this thing a BIG COWARD. Instead of telling the other person directly that they’ve fallen out of love, they keep the other waiting and wondering of ‘WHY THINGS SUDDENLY CHANGED’. They don’t have the nerve to tell directly that they’ve fallen out of love.
Face it, telling them or not will cause the same, you’d break their heart (may even crashed it). So why prolong, and why leave the other person hanging?
Some are scared to say the magic word, “i’ve fallen out of love” because their scared of hurting the other person. But scared or not, not telling the other person that you did, will only worsen the other’s situation. For some, those who tell the girl/guy directly are cruel, but as for me, it’s better to be honest than keep the other waiting. They’d get hurt, that’s for sure, but at least, they can move on.
Pain isn’t scary, what’s more scary is believin’ onto something that isn’t there anymore.
Furious and confuse, you’d approach that prince. He’d ask you why do you want to see him? And you’d answer, “Coz I wonder how you’ve been” then ask him, “What am I to you?”. And he’d tell you, “You’re a stain i want to erase!. Start worrying about yourself. Take care.” OUCH???!!! OMG!!!!!
Okay, how did I know this? Stop playing that thoghts in your mind for this isn’t my love story, hahaha. I’m currently watching the korean version of “Boys Before Flowers” (a.k.a Hana Yori Dango (Japan) & Meteor Garden (taiwan)).
There’s this scene where the guy said that, “A stain I want to erase”.
I find guys (or even gals, for i heard there are bitch out there) who does this thing a BIG COWARD. Instead of telling the other person directly that they’ve fallen out of love, they keep the other waiting and wondering of ‘WHY THINGS SUDDENLY CHANGED’. They don’t have the nerve to tell directly that they’ve fallen out of love.
Face it, telling them or not will cause the same, you’d break their heart (may even crashed it). So why prolong, and why leave the other person hanging?
Some are scared to say the magic word, “i’ve fallen out of love” because their scared of hurting the other person. But scared or not, not telling the other person that you did, will only worsen the other’s situation. For some, those who tell the girl/guy directly are cruel, but as for me, it’s better to be honest than keep the other waiting. They’d get hurt, that’s for sure, but at least, they can move on.
Pain isn’t scary, what’s more scary is believin’ onto something that isn’t there anymore.
Friday, March 27, 2009
Summer Time
TIME MOVES SOOOO FAST. A few more days and it’ll be summer month again. GOSH.
I’ve been in Baguio over the weekend but the summer capital itself didn’t make me realize that. I’m that slow and stupid, if not most of the time, at times.hahaha.
Everybody is planning their summer getaway that’s for sure, and am I planning? Yeah, just another baguio trip with my college friends. Some people have been inviting me to EK, Galera, Palawan and etc. but I haven’t said “yes” to any of those. And why? I don’t know, I just don’t like to spend for now. Okay, weirdo.hehe. FREE STUFF ARE WAY BETTER, OFCOURSE! :D
Right now, I’m living day by day which some also call as step by step. I plan, sure I do, but more of a long term plans, like a certain end I’m picturing. And at the same time, I’m living to the fullest today. When I say fullest, it does not mean physical and financial full blaster, but more of emotional and relationship wiser.
The past quarter has been a positively blast and crazy. A LOT HAD HAPPENED AGAIN. There’s being a back-up Control Accountant (aka Officer-in-charge), CI workshop, meeting a lot of good and nice like-minded-people from a business community, getting A LITTLE BIT closer to someone who’ve caught my special attention for sometime now (yihee :D), building a lot of good relationship and new friendships :D, year-end bonus/salary increase, getting a good debt, bein’ a core team member, and lastly, a new extrovert, light-hearted and bubbly me. A TOTAL CHANGE I SHOULD SAY for someone who used to be quoted as “autistic”. Okay, that’s exaggerating, just “shy, quiet and snob”. :D
I’m pretty sure summer time will be another blast. Hopefully, by then, I can share to you my chapter 2 in terms of love, a lot of free outings, meeting lots lots of people that I can make a difference to, and lastly a better and financially free me. :D
“Forms follow function”
I’ve been in Baguio over the weekend but the summer capital itself didn’t make me realize that. I’m that slow and stupid, if not most of the time, at times.hahaha.
Everybody is planning their summer getaway that’s for sure, and am I planning? Yeah, just another baguio trip with my college friends. Some people have been inviting me to EK, Galera, Palawan and etc. but I haven’t said “yes” to any of those. And why? I don’t know, I just don’t like to spend for now. Okay, weirdo.hehe. FREE STUFF ARE WAY BETTER, OFCOURSE! :D
Right now, I’m living day by day which some also call as step by step. I plan, sure I do, but more of a long term plans, like a certain end I’m picturing. And at the same time, I’m living to the fullest today. When I say fullest, it does not mean physical and financial full blaster, but more of emotional and relationship wiser.
The past quarter has been a positively blast and crazy. A LOT HAD HAPPENED AGAIN. There’s being a back-up Control Accountant (aka Officer-in-charge), CI workshop, meeting a lot of good and nice like-minded-people from a business community, getting A LITTLE BIT closer to someone who’ve caught my special attention for sometime now (yihee :D), building a lot of good relationship and new friendships :D, year-end bonus/salary increase, getting a good debt, bein’ a core team member, and lastly, a new extrovert, light-hearted and bubbly me. A TOTAL CHANGE I SHOULD SAY for someone who used to be quoted as “autistic”. Okay, that’s exaggerating, just “shy, quiet and snob”. :D
I’m pretty sure summer time will be another blast. Hopefully, by then, I can share to you my chapter 2 in terms of love, a lot of free outings, meeting lots lots of people that I can make a difference to, and lastly a better and financially free me. :D
“Forms follow function”
Wednesday, March 25, 2009
One More Chance
If you’d be given a chance to go back in time, will you take the chance? Will you give up today so you can go back to yesterday?
I remember a Filipino movie entitled “One More Chance”. A lot of people have been telling me to watch it coz it’s really nice and I can relate to it but I haven’t done so, and I’m betting that I won’t be doing so. Not in the near future tho. Maybe someday I will. You may call it a coincidence but the story was somehow similar to my real love story. Long-term relationship that started in UST that eventually ended after 5 years. OUCH. Haha. I can still remember the pain at times but most of the time, I laugh thru it.
There are times I do want to go back in time especially on heavy days that I really miss those days he’s with me. The first love I had was almost perfect that I couldn’t dare to get mad to the guy which made it harder for me to move on before. But I’m so glad I did and not clinging to pass is what made me do it.
To answer why I never watch the movie? Not because I’ll get hurt but because I don’t want to influence myself and believe in one more chance. As they say, “what’s done is done”.
It’s been 365 days now. The pain is gone, the longing is gone, but the loneliness, is it gone?
At the moment, loneliness is still here. I’m happy, no doubt about it. But “used to be” are really hard to deal with sometimes. There are times I wish I have somebody. Somebody I can share my thoughts with, share my time with and hopefully share my life with.
I’ve used to believe in forever love and I was ready to give that love to someone, wholeheartedly. But sadness, he stepped on it and pushed me away. Ironic as life is, when you’re ready to give everything to someone that’s when they take you for granted. Oh my, I’m word vomiting here.hahaha.
It’s raining outside and it feels like it’s raining inside me, at this very minute, right here, right now.
I remember a Filipino movie entitled “One More Chance”. A lot of people have been telling me to watch it coz it’s really nice and I can relate to it but I haven’t done so, and I’m betting that I won’t be doing so. Not in the near future tho. Maybe someday I will. You may call it a coincidence but the story was somehow similar to my real love story. Long-term relationship that started in UST that eventually ended after 5 years. OUCH. Haha. I can still remember the pain at times but most of the time, I laugh thru it.
There are times I do want to go back in time especially on heavy days that I really miss those days he’s with me. The first love I had was almost perfect that I couldn’t dare to get mad to the guy which made it harder for me to move on before. But I’m so glad I did and not clinging to pass is what made me do it.
To answer why I never watch the movie? Not because I’ll get hurt but because I don’t want to influence myself and believe in one more chance. As they say, “what’s done is done”.
It’s been 365 days now. The pain is gone, the longing is gone, but the loneliness, is it gone?
At the moment, loneliness is still here. I’m happy, no doubt about it. But “used to be” are really hard to deal with sometimes. There are times I wish I have somebody. Somebody I can share my thoughts with, share my time with and hopefully share my life with.
I’ve used to believe in forever love and I was ready to give that love to someone, wholeheartedly. But sadness, he stepped on it and pushed me away. Ironic as life is, when you’re ready to give everything to someone that’s when they take you for granted. Oh my, I’m word vomiting here.hahaha.
It’s raining outside and it feels like it’s raining inside me, at this very minute, right here, right now.
Tuesday, March 17, 2009
Trying Times
Nowadays, it’s everyone’s favorite word. From the newspaper, magazines, internet, etc. it’s the main story that’s closely looked at by people from all classes.
Someone has said that “if things are easy then it wouldn’t be worthwhile”. In line to that, someone also said, “Be thankful that things aren’t easy for it only mean it’s not yet the end”. It does make sense coz life, indeed, is really worthwhile and that I still don’t like it to end.
These days I should say have been one of those days I call, CRAZY. My spirit in totality is being tested again. From my own health, work responsibilities/opportunities, family matters, supposed-to-be school matters and my future activity. Trying times is amazing coz it was able to do much in span of almost two weeks, capturing all the areas I’ve just mentioned. Just today, I’ve handled two, both personal and professional. Today I had to stand between an institute versus my own brother which resulted to a bit messing up my professional side. I’m not good in disappointing people and at the same time I’m not good of confrontations and expressing myself verbally, but now I’m trying to look at things in whole picture. I don’t panic and decide the most logical and ethical way. That’s the reason why I always think that you should never let down your guard for you’ll never know once these things hit you. Good thing I’m having the proper mindset that I’m able to handle it all without being stressed out. Although at times, it makes me want to faint, just to exaggerate.
In times like this, I just need to dust myself off and carry on, in addition to thinking through and preparation. I know my priorities now; I’ve already set and decided to stick to them. Good thing I did coz without it probably I’d feel tired and lost again.
As I’ve mentioned a few days ago, I’m about to sail, and I won’t let all these things stop me to where I’m going. AJA! :D
Someone has said that “if things are easy then it wouldn’t be worthwhile”. In line to that, someone also said, “Be thankful that things aren’t easy for it only mean it’s not yet the end”. It does make sense coz life, indeed, is really worthwhile and that I still don’t like it to end.
These days I should say have been one of those days I call, CRAZY. My spirit in totality is being tested again. From my own health, work responsibilities/opportunities, family matters, supposed-to-be school matters and my future activity. Trying times is amazing coz it was able to do much in span of almost two weeks, capturing all the areas I’ve just mentioned. Just today, I’ve handled two, both personal and professional. Today I had to stand between an institute versus my own brother which resulted to a bit messing up my professional side. I’m not good in disappointing people and at the same time I’m not good of confrontations and expressing myself verbally, but now I’m trying to look at things in whole picture. I don’t panic and decide the most logical and ethical way. That’s the reason why I always think that you should never let down your guard for you’ll never know once these things hit you. Good thing I’m having the proper mindset that I’m able to handle it all without being stressed out. Although at times, it makes me want to faint, just to exaggerate.
In times like this, I just need to dust myself off and carry on, in addition to thinking through and preparation. I know my priorities now; I’ve already set and decided to stick to them. Good thing I did coz without it probably I’d feel tired and lost again.
As I’ve mentioned a few days ago, I’m about to sail, and I won’t let all these things stop me to where I’m going. AJA! :D
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